Chalk Another One Up for Self-Defense! Would You Pull the Trigger or Be a Potential Victim?

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Bitter sweet story tonight as another person has defended themselves against an attacker. This story also comes from Utah where a homeowner rightfully shot and killed 19yr old Kyle Poulton as he attempted to break into the homeowner's home in the middle of the night. The homeowner saw the threat and reacted effectively protecting his home and his two small children from the threat. 

I wrote in previous posts (Click to go to post) you must be ready for any threat even if it happens in the middle of the night and by a kid that everyone else "says" was a good kid. In that posting the "kids" broke in and hacked to death a 42 yr old mother with a machete. When the threat is there you don't have a lot of time to debate the attackers real intention. If they make aggressive force to potentially harm you or your family you need to respond. 

Make sure you understand your local laws on protective and lethal force. You don't need to go to jail in the process of protecting yourself from an attacker. (Click here for your local laws on lethal force).

In most states you have the right to protect yourself, your home, and your family. The real question is would you? Would you pull the trigger or would be the next potential victim? Decide that now and be prepared because an attack happens many times without rhyme or reason if you are prepared you have no need to fear. 

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Police arrest accomplice in botched Kearns burglary, Other is Shot and Killed by Homeowner

November 8th, 2010 @ 9:22pm

By ksl.com

KEARNS -- Prosecutors must decide whether a Kearns homeowner acted in self-defense when he shot and killed an apparent burglar in the middle of the night. Less than 24 hours later, police arrested an accomplice in the burglary who told them the same chain of events.

Friends, family shocked by Poulton's death

People who knew the accused burglar who was shot to death early Monday morning say they are stunned. Nineteen-year-old Kyle Poulton's father says he has no idea what his son was doing at that home or what went wrong.

Police say Poulton was killed as he and 18-year-old Derek Sego tried to break into the home near 5600 South and 5100 West. Lt. Don Hutson of the Unified Police Department says the homeowner was unaware of another burglar, but investigators were able to track Sego down after talking with acquaintances of the young men.

Pam Marrs, who manages the Sconecutter restaurant in Kearns where Poulton worked, says he was well-liked.

18-year-old Derek Sego

19-year-old Kyle Poulton

"It's unbelievable to me to even think he would break into a home," she said.

Marrs says Poulton was supposed to be at work Monday night.

"He worked a lot with me," she said. "He was a really good worker, did everything I told him. So, I don't know, it's just sad."

Poulton's father says his son was the youngest of four children, had a job and was considering joining the military. He says the family can't understand what he was doing.

Police: Attempted break-in led to shooting

Around 3 a.m., police say the Kearns homeowner heard noise and saw a person trying to break in the rear glass door. Earlier, a mysterious ring of the doorbell had awakened the family. The homeowner told police at that time, he went outside to look around; so when he later heard the noise out back, fearing an intruder, he armed himself with a handgun.

"He fired one round through the glass," Hutson said. "The person ran away, and he immediately called 911."

Police found Poulton dead in the street.

After further investigation, police arrested Sego on burglary charges and obstruction of justice. Police say Sego admitted he was trying to break into a window when Poulton was shot, and he ran.

Neighbors defended the homeowner.

"What do you do when someone is trying to break into your house?" asked Jason Dickinson.

Natalia Neaniffe said the homeowner had two young children in the home.

"Sometimes you do whatever it takes to cover their safety," she said.

So far, Unified Police say evidence and the story from the other accused burglar match the homeowner's version of events.

"This homeowner had two small children in the home," Hutson said. "Clearly, someone was attempting to break into the home, and this is something that is going to have be looked at by the [district attorney's] office."

Lawyer: State law will likely protect homeowner

A local attorney and author believes the homeowner will not be charged with a crime. Mitch Vilos says Utah's self-defense statute allows someone "to use deadly force to prevent the commission of a forcible felony; and burglary is a forcible felony."

The author of the book "The Self Defense Law of all 50 States" says an intruder doesn't have to be in the home to open fire. Vilos says the burglar just has to be trying to get into the home.

But Vilos says a gun-toting homeowner shouldn't go too far. He said, "Once that force against you has ceased, you have a responsibility to stop using force."

Vilos encourages all gun owners to brush up on the law. He says Utah has one of the strongest home-defense laws in the nation

Meanwhile, Poulton's family says they are hoping to have his organs donated.

If you had to? Could you? Would you be ready?

Your pulse is racing the threat is there and very real. You never thought this would really happen to you but here you are. You attacker is making his move and you can feel it to your core if you don't do something to end this now either you or your loved one will pay the ultimate price. As your attacker moves either he presents the opening, or with you past training you create the opening and in that split moment you have the chance to end the threat...but will you?

The major disadvantage that most people have in defending themselves and their family is the mental focus difference of the attacker and the defender. The attacker has already made a previous decision that they are willing and ready to use aggressive force but most defenders have not. Their life or the life of a loved one is on the line and the defender for the first time is having to make the decision if they will do whatever it takes to protect. This mental block or moment of decision making can mean life or death. Even if you have the opening, even if you have had tremendous training, or even carry a lethal weapon, it won't matter if you haven't already made the decision to do whatever it takes to act to end the threat. 

Ask yourself now if your life or the life a loved one was in danger what would you be willing to do to protect yourself or them? Would you be willing to fight a little, cause near death, or perhaps do whatever it takes including taking another life to save those innocent? If you did have to react and the only way to stop that threat was a lethal blow could you and would you do it? Could you live with yourself after if you did or if you did not?

These are all questions you have to firmly make now when you’re safe and out of dangers way because at any moment that may change. If it does the worst, time to contemplate if you are ready to act is when the moment is only a split second and the wrong decision means you life or the life of loved one. A defensive mind is resolved in the willingness to appropriately meet the threat with the right amount of response and not have to think about if you should do what it takes or not. If it is a mild threat, you are willing to meet it with a mild response. If it is a potentially lethal threat, you are willing to be the first to meet that threat with lethal force before it has the chance to do it first. Your Ultimate Defense Training starts with a resolved defensive mind that is willing and able to meet whatever level of threat you face with the equal level of defensive force. Are you willing and are you ready?