Real World Defense for Real Life Threats that Can Be Done by Real People

These are not out dated martial arts or flashy flipping demo team techniques. Ultimate Defense Techniques (UDT) are real techniques to handle today's real life threats. From knowledge of what kinds of threats are out there to how to neutralizing a potential attack, handling multiple attackers or saving your life against modern weapons threats, UDT techniques work young or old, big or small, male or female.

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Showing posts with label domestic defense. Show all posts
Showing posts with label domestic defense. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

What if the Attacker was your Son!? What would you do if a loved one attacked?

 
Ryan stabbed his mother to death and almost killed his father as well. He fled the scene and then tried to kill himself by train knowing he had, "done something bad." The reality is your chances of being attacked by someone you know if far more likely then someone you don't. Even worse you more likely to be murdered by a loved one then a stranger. These are sad realities of life and you can deny them and or realize its real and prepare.  


If it was your son or another loved one attacked you, what would you do? 

Ultimate Defense is being ready for any threat at any time this includes domestic attacks. If you think it will never happen to you, you are likely setting the stage for another sad story like this. You may not feel you could use lethal force to protect yourself against a loved one. If not realize that upfront and train to know how to incapacitate instead of eliminate the threat. Decide what you would do now and train to be ready if it ever happens. You may never have to defend yourself against a loved one but if you do you will be glad your ready.  

NY police: Man stabs parents, then is hit by train
December 13th, 2010 @ 3:59pm
By COLLEEN LONG
Associated Press


NEW YORK (AP) - A man stabbed his mother to death and gravely wounded his father Monday in their home, then fled into a nearby subway station, jumped onto the tracks and was struck by an oncoming train, police said.

Ryan Devaney, 31, who was hospitalized in serious condition, is facing murder and attempted murder charges, police said. His parents were found on the front porch of their Brooklyn home. The mother died at a hospital and the father was listed in critical condition.

Calls to possible relatives were not returned, and no one answered the phone at the home Monday.
Police received an emergency call from a neighbor saying someone was injured and bleeding at the stately brick home in the Windsor Terrace neighborhood, located close to Prospect Park. When they arrived, they found Margaret Devaney, 57, stabbed in the eye and abdomen. Raymond Devaney, 70, had been stabbed in the throat.

Police said Margaret Devaney went out the front door covered in blood and called out to her neighbor, who came outside and saw the couple collapsed on the porch.

According to police, neighbors said they saw Ryan Devaney walking quickly from the home, his hands covered in blood. He told one passer-by that he had "done something bad," according to police, as he made his way to the subway station at 15th Street and Prospect Park West, where he jumped onto the tracks and was hit by a "G" train during the morning rush hour.

Police believe Devaney was trying to kill himself. Witnesses told police they saw a burst of feathers from his down jacket above the tracks.

Service was suspended for about an hour at the height of rush hour on the "F" and "G" subway lines, normally clogged with commuters.

Devaney had a history of mental illness along with arrests on robbery and grand larceny charges, and there were prior restraining orders against him preventing him from seeing his father, police said. Authorities were called to the home at least nine times this year, with Devaney being hospitalized afterward several times.
There also were seven domestic incident reports taken at the home, though it was unclear who was accused of being the aggressor. It's also unclear if anyone else lived at the home.
A 4-inch black knife was recovered at the scene.

(Copyright 2010 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.)

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Stop Sexual Assault, Don't Be the Next Victim! Part 2

Your best defense is to be mentally prepared for an attack.

Once attacked, many victims describe feeling as though their minds were floating—like they had slipped out of their bodies and were witnesses to the crimes being committed against them. The reason for this is that those who are unprepared to deal with violent situations who find themselves suddenly thrown into one go into shock. Their minds drift and wander and they lose precious time. You need to combat this feeling by knowing how to respond in a crisis. How do you accomplish this?

The same way you prepare for everything. Rehearse it in your mind. When asking your boss for a raise, or bringing up a particularly sensitive subject with a loved one, you practice how to broach the subject and what arguments you can use to support your view. You can train yourself to respond to violent attacks in the same way. When you read about or hear crime stories, imagine yourself in a similar situation and imagine how you would respond. Do this often to prepare your mind for an emergency response.

Discuss the subject with your family members and treat it as seriously as you would a home fire drill. You need to develop a mind-set prepared for violence. When you do hear crime stories, you will most likely find a certain repetition in the stories in that criminals all tend to do the same things. What it boils down to is the assailant controlling the victim through fear.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Chicago Teen Denzel Pittman Charged in Triple Murder of Girlfriend's Family





CHICAGO (CBS/AP) Authorities have arrested Chicago teen Denzel Pittman, believed to be the boyfriend of a 17-year-old girl who was found fatally stabbed along with her mother and younger sister in their home on the city's South Side.

Pittman was charged Wednesday with first-degree murder in the deaths of 17-year-old Jade Hannah, Hannah's mother, 43-year-old Stacy Cochran-Hill and Hannah's younger sister, 11-year-old Joi Cochran.
According to The Chicago Sun-Times, authorities said Pittman was involved in a domestic altercation with Jade Hannah late Monday when he pulled out a knife and fatally stabbed her.
The 18-year-old then used the knife on her mother and sister.
Witnesses reportedly observed Pittman fleeing the scene and were able to provide an accurate description of the teen to police.
Officers caught up with Pittman who was found walking, and proceeded to pursue the suspect on foot before  apprehending him in the city's Morgan Park neighborhood, reports The Chicago Sun-Times.
All three of the victims were found unresponsive with multiple stab wounds in their apartment not far from where Pittman was detained.
"That's it, my babies are gone," Sharon Ramey, Cochran-Hill's mother and the girls' grandmother, told The Chicago Tribune a few hours after learning of their violent deaths. "Right now I'm just in limbo."
Pittman was scheduled to appear in bond court Wednesday.

Monday, November 29, 2010

20 year old murdered by her boyfriend after she turned down proposal!

Friends only thought they had a rocky relationship and after she turned down his proposal, they thought she was just ignoring him. Soon after returning from Thanksgiving weekend, he murdered her!

When strangers are around or when we are out in a strange place we are hyper vigilant about watching out for potential threats but sadly you are far more likely to be attacked or harmed by someone you know then someone you don't. Ultimate Defense is protecting yourself from any threat at any time. 

Jenni-Lyn Watson was just over 5 feet and barely 100lbs. Many would say she wouldn't have a chance but Ultimate Defense works no matter you age, size, or gender. We will never know if she had prepared if she would have had a different ending to this story but you and your family can learn from this tragedy or become the next potential victim!

By Edmund DeMarche & Cristina Corbin
Published November 27, 2010
| FoxNews.com

Police have arrested the ex-boyfriend of Jenni-Lyn Watson, whose body was found in a storage shed near Clay Central Park, N.Y., Saturday afternoon. Steven Pieper, 21, has been charged with second-degree murder.

Pieper pled not guilty Saturday night to killing Watson and dumping her body in the park.

A prosecutor tells the Syracuse Post-Standard that Pieper, of Liverpool, N.Y., was held without bail because of the seriousness of the charge. It was not immediately clear if Pieper had a lawyer.

Watson and Pieper had an on-and-off relationship over an 18-month period, according to Onondaga County District Attorney William Fitzpatrick, WSYR-TV reports.

The arrest comes hours after Watson's body was found in Clay Central Park, where the search has focused since she disappeared on Nov. 19. Watson's family has been notified and will identify the remains. An autopsy is planned for Sunday, WSYR-TV reports.

A friend of Watson's, who spoke to FoxNews.com on condition of anonymity, said the young woman had recently broken off an engagement.
"The break-up didn't go as cordially as it should have," the friend said.

Eden Mishler, a dance major who had met Watson three years ago during her freshman year at Mercyhurst College, told The Associated Press that she had met Pieper several times but didn't know him that well.

"She would talk to us, just saying, after they broke up, that he was trying to contact her and friend request her on Facebook," the 21-year-old Mishler said. "She was avoiding him."

But she said the two had a rocky relationship, and there was some jealousy. Nevertheless, Mishler thought he cared for her.
Watson, 20, disappeared a day after returning home to Clay for Thanksgiving break. Undersheriff Warren Darby said Friday that more than 100 people were searching for her. 

He said the search expanded from 600 acres to 1,200 acres. Watson -- 5-feet 2 inches tall and 100 lbs. with dirty blond hair and brown eyes -- was an accomplished ballerina and dance major at Mercyhurst College in Erie, Pa.

Friends describe Watson as a "sweetheart" who excelled in ballet for 16 years, performing with the prestigious Moscow Ballet.
The Associated Press contributed to this report.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Midvale police: Man stabbed pregnant girlfriend

By Associated Press

SALT LAKE CITY (AP) -- Police in Midvale say a 41-year-old man stabbed his pregnant girlfriend in the stomach because he was upset over her protective order against him.
Midvale police Sgt. Marcelo Rapela told The Salt Lake Tribune that Jeffrey Ingram also stabbed his 4-months-pregnant girlfriend in the hand, then fled Tuesday night. He remains at large.

Rapela says the 23-year-old woman was hospitalized in fair condition with minor injuries, but the condition of the fetus was unknown.Rapela says the order was issued against Ingram earlier Tuesday, and that Ingram "was mad and said she lied."He says the woman could not describe the weapon used in the assault, and no knife was found.

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UDT Comment:

Yesterday I wrote about your attacker being closer to home then you may think. (Click here for story) It appears this young woman in Midvale was attempting to escape her abuser and he attacked her for it. Again Ultimate Defense is taking control of your life and only putting the you and your loved ones safety in your own hands. It means being prepared to handle any threat no matter the source. Having someone, who should care about you be the threat on your life is far worse than the stranger in the street because it is also a betrayal of trust at the same time. The stranger you don't trust, you are suspicious of what they may do. When you see them you are on your guard at all times. When a loved one turns into a threat it is far more scary because they know about you. Where you live or where you may be. The stranger may only have one chance to attack you the loved one turned attacker has multiple and can wait for just the right time.

A threat is a threat no matter the source and no one has the right to harm you so don't wait for the attack to happen. A restraining order is something you need to do but it is not a force field. If (like this boyfriend did) a person decides to violate the restraining order their consequences are legal action that will only happen after they violate the restraining order (like attack you) and by that point if you are not prepared it may be too late. You can not relay on the legal system to protect your life or your loved ones lives, you must do that, then be ready to help the legal system enforce the violation. Your protection is your responsibility and only you can take back control from that abuser. Only by be prepared will you reduce the fear and be able to take back your life. Don't be a victim learn to Ultimately Defend yourself from all threats.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Your attacker may be closer to home then you think! Would you know what to do if it was a loved one?

After reading this news article I had to write something about self-defense and domestic violence. http://ultimatedefensetraining.blogspot.com/2010/11/reno-man-remained-jailed-monday-after.html
 
Here is the reality:
  • One in four women (25%) has experienced domestic violence in her lifetime.
  • Nearly three out of four (74%) of Americans personally know someone who is or has been a victim of domestic violence. 
  • On average, more than three women and one man are murdered by their intimate partners in this country every day.
  • Most intimate partner homicides occur between spouses, though boyfriends/girlfriends have committed about the same number of homicides in recent years.
  • Approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and/or sexually abused by a dating partner.
  • 50% of the men who frequently assaulted their wives also frequently abused their children.




Ultimate Defense means that you are prepared to defend yourself and loved ones against any threat...even if that threat is from someone in your home. Sadly the truth is your chances of being attacked by someone you know or have a close relationship with is more likely then by a stranger. This is one of the hardest self-defense situations because we care about the person attacking us. With a stranger, we can easily vilify them as the bad guy and may be able to be far more brutal to them for the sake of protecting ourselves or our loved ones. But when the attack comes from a loved one, many feel powerless.

The truth is no one, ABSOLUTELY NO ONE, has the right to hurt or harm you or any family members. There is no justification, "no you made me do it", or "you taught me to treat you this way." This is abuse plain and simple and it takes away you and your children's self-control, self-esteem, or perhaps even life. Self-defense doesn't mean you must kill the person attacking you. If you are trained properly you know to what level of defense you use against different levels of threat.

If Uncle Albert lashes out in a drunken rage depending on the amount of threat you feel from him you may need to just incapacitate him not respond with lethal force. But if Uncle Albert, in that same drunken rage, tries to strangle you and your child, then greater action is needed. Keep in mind it was Uncle Alberts decision to drink and I don't care what anyone says, even in a drunken state, if Uncle Albert isn't really someone who would harm you, then he wouldn't even try when he was drunk. None the less whatever Uncle Albert decides to do he doesn't get to harm you or you children for any reason!

Domestic violence is real and closer to home then you think. Ultimate Defense is being ready for any threat at anytime and then knowing how to effectively handle that threat. If the threat comes from a loved one you need to be prepared to let them know that it is not OK to hurt or harm you or your children. If THEY decide to escalate that threat to one that makes you fear for you or your children's safety in any way, then YOU decide to let them appropriately know its not OK. If they really care about you and want to change, they will get the message, if not they are not the loving person you believed them to be and you need to get out. They are worse then that stranger attacking you in the street because at least you know what to expect from the stranger. 




 

Reno man remained jailed Monday after police said he tried to strangle his pregnant wife, battered their toddler, and then waived a loaded gun in the air

A 24-year-old Reno man remained jailed Monday after police said he tried to strangle his pregnant wife, battered their toddler and then waived a loaded gun in the air.

Jaime Rodriguez was booked Sunday morning into the Washoe County Jail on suspicion of strangulation, domestic violence, child abuse and child endangerment. He remained in custody Monday in lieu of $23,272 bail. Reno police were called to the couple’s home in the 4000 block of Gardella Avenue after Rodriguez had left the home, according to a police report. His pregnant wife told officers she had safely taken the gun from her husband, who had then fled the residence. Rodriguez was allegedly grossly intoxicated when following the alleged abuse, he waived a loaded gun in the room and threatened suicide, the report said. Police arrested him when he returned to the home soon after. The woman received medical treatment following the incident, authorities said.

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